You can contact the counseling services of TH Köln for an informal, confidential chat. They will give you more detailed information on how TH Köln can support you. After your chat, you can decide whether and to what extent you want to take further action. It is entirely your decision. The counseling services at TH Köln are under no obligation to take further steps.
If the incident occurred outside TH Köln or you would like to contact an independent agency, these external services may be an option for you:
Counseling and support services
Anonymous evidence collection after a sexual offense
In general, and especially at a place of work and study like TH Köln, people affected by sexualized discrimination and violence can be unsure about whether they have understood a situation correctly. Chatting with a person who is not directly involved can help you become more certain about your own perception and to appraise the situation fully. In some cases, it can be helpful to make it clear to the perpetrator, either verbally or in writing, that you feel you have been a victim of sexual discrimination or harassment. However, there are also many reasons to avoid confronting the perpetrator yourself. The counseling services can clarify how a confrontation could take place and who could do it. You may also find it helpful to write the situation down for yourself.
As cases of sexualized discrimination and violence and the contexts in which the people affected find themselves can be very different, there is no single right approach. If you would like support, the counseling services can help you to find your own way forward.